一、斯人如彩虹，遇上方知有。有趣的灵魂终会相遇，在此之前，请先努力成为更好的自己。
People like rainbows know when they meet. Interesting souls will eventually meet. Before that, try to be a better self.
二、长大以后的世界，是有时你说了真话，你还得和人家道歉，因为你戳穿了事实。所以想要活得顺畅，请时刻带上脑子。
When you grow up in the world, sometimes you tell the truth, you have to apologize to others, because you have punctured the truth. So if you want to live smoothly, take your mind with you all the time.
三、你要做一个不动声色的大人了。不准情绪化，不准偷偷想念，不准回头看。去过自己另外的生活。你要听话，不是所有的鱼都会生活在同一片海里。
You're going to be a quiet adult. Do not be emotional, do not secretly miss, do not look back. Live a different life for yourself. Be obedient, not all fish will live in the same ocean.
四、不必过于在意人与人之间表面的情绪；挚交之人不需要，泛交之人用不着。情绪这东西，你不在乎，它就伤不到你。
Don't care too much about the superficial emotions between people; people who have close acquaintances don't need them; people who have extensive acquaintances don't need them. Emotion, you don't care, it won't hurt you.
五、等你的身体出了什么毛病，你就会意识到什么烦心事都是屁，都是吃饱了撑的，都是闲的，健康活着比什么都重要。
When something goes wrong with your body, you will realize that everything you worry about is fart, you are full, you are idle, and it is more important to live healthily than anything else.
六、所有关系变淡的原因一个不说，一个不问。一个问得尴尬，一个答得敷衍，不说，以为对方会懂，不问，以为对方已变，终从无话不说变成了无话可说。
The reasons for all the weakening of the relationship are not to say, not to ask. One asks embarrassingly, the other answers perfunctorily, does not say, thinks that the other party understands, does not ask, thinks that the other party has changed, and finally becomes speechless from speechless to speechless.
七、未曾清贫难做人，不经打击永天真。成熟不过是善于隐藏，沧桑不过是无泪有伤。
Never be poor, never be naive. Maturity is only good at hiding, vicissitudes of life are just no tears and injuries.
八、人啊，长了颗红楼梦的心，却生活在水浒的世界，想交些三国里的桃园弟兄，却总遇到些西游记里的妖魔鬼怪。
Man, with a dream of red mansions, he lives in the world of the Marsh. He wants to make some brothers in Taoyuan in the Three Kingdoms, but he always encounters some devils in his travels to the West.
九、别人做得越绝，你反而越容易走得出去。所以很多时候，你应该感激那些毫不顾及你的人。哀莫大于心不死，幸莫过于死彻底。
The more people do it, the easier it is for you to get out. So many times, you should be grateful to those who don't care about you. No sorrow is greater than death, and no luck is more complete than death.
十、有些东西，并不是越浓越好，要恰到好处。深深的话我们浅浅地说，长长的路我们慢慢地走。
Some things, not the thicker the better, to be just right. Deep words, we say shallowly, the long road we take slowly.
十一、你的善良要留给那些懂得感恩的人，而不是那种将你的善良接受的理所应当，且会欲求不满得寸进尺的小人。
Your kindness should be left to those who know how to be grateful, not to those who take your kindness for granted and want to be dissatisfied.
十二、每一夜都能干干净净、心安理得、筋疲力尽地入睡；每一天能清清爽爽、心平气和、精神充沛地醒来，这就是最好的生活。
Every night can be clean, safe, exhausted to sleep; every day can be refreshing, calm, energetic wake up, this is the best life.
十三、脆弱的人才会四处游说自己的不幸，坚强的人只会不动声色的越加强大。
Vulnerable people will lobby their misfortunes everywhere. Strong people will only be more and more quiet.
十四、谈恋爱没几个月就想过一辈子，朋友对你好一点你就想来往一生，难怪你被伤的那么多，这都是天真给你的代价。
Fall in love a few months to had thought for a lifetime, the friend is good to you a bit you want to come and go all one's life, parwonder you are injured so much, this is the price that innocent gives you.
十五、如果我在意的人对我忽冷忽热，而我又为此感到了患得患失，那么我便会选择不辞而别，因为我没那么多耐心去品尝患得患失的感觉。
If the person I care about is cold and hot to me, and I feel the gain and loss, then I will choose to leave, because I do not have so much patience to taste the feeling of gain and loss.
十六、这短短的一生，我们最终都会失去。你不妨大胆一些，爱一个人，攀一座山，追一个梦。
This short life, we will eventually lose. You might as well be bold, love a person, climb a mountain, chase a dream.
十七、伸手需要一瞬间，牵手却要很多年，无论你遇见谁，他都是你生命该出现的人，绝非偶然，若无相欠，怎会相见。
It takes a moment to reach out, but it takes many years to hold hands. Whoever you meet, he is the person in your life. It's no accident. If you don't owe each other, how can you meet each other?
十八、小时候我以为最浪漫的事，是一个人走很远的路去看另一个人，现在我明白最浪漫的事，是一个人不管走多远的路，心里想的念的都是同一个人。
When I was a child, I thought that the most romantic thing was that one person went a long way to see another person. Now I understand that the most romantic thing is that no matter how far a person goes, he thinks of the same person in his heart.
十九、所谓的诗和远方，不过是要把眼前的苟且都熬过了，才能拥有。
The so-called poems and distant places, but to get through the present, can have.
二十、时间最会骗人，但也能让你明白，这个世界没有什么不能失去的，离去的都是风景，留下的才是人生，走到最后的，就是对的人。
Time is the most deceptive, but also let you understand that there is nothing in the world that can not be lost, leaving is the scenery, leaving behind is life, to the end, is the right person.
二十一、每个人都一样，都有一段独行的日子，或长或短，这都是无可回避的。不必总觉得生命空空荡荡，放心吧，一时的孤独只是意味着你值得拥有更好的。
Everyone is the same, there is a period of time alone, long or short, which is unavoidable. Don't always feel empty, rest assured, a moment of loneliness just means you deserve better.
二十二、不如就利用孤单一人的时间使自己变得更优秀，给来的人一个惊喜，也给自己一个好的交代。
It's better to use the time of loneliness to make oneself better, surprise the people and give oneself a good account.
二十三、时光就像个大筛子，经得起过滤，自以为玩的不错的好友，也许并不是你想象得那样好，只有经过时间的检验，日久见人心，最后留下来的，才是真正的朋友。
Time is like a big sieve, which can withstand filtering and think it's a good friend to play with. Maybe it's not as good as you think. Only after the test of time, people will see each other for a long time, and finally stay, is the real friend.
二十四、总有一天你的棱角会被世界磨平，不再为一点小事伤心动怒，也不再为一些小人愤愤不平。你会拔掉身上的刺，你会学着对讨厌的人微笑，变得波澜不惊，你会变成一个不动声色的人。
Someday, your edges and corners will be smoothed by the world. You will no longer be angry and sad about trifles, nor resentful about some trifles. You will pull out the thorns, you will learn to smile at the people you hate, become quiet, you will become a quiet person.
